Seasonal people should never be confused and misinterpreted with lifetime expectations. Some people come into you life just for a SEASON. These people are not here to be in your life forever. Do not ever try to make seasonal people into LIFETIME EXPECTATIONS. Trust me that spells T-r-o-u-b-l-e. Yes Trouble with a capital T.
Seasonal people are like the leaves of a tree. When the season changes, they change. You need people who are like roots. You need people that are going to be there with you through THICK and THIN. But you need to be true to yourself. Ask yourself, is that man that I'm about to marry a LIFETIME EXPECTATION or someone you feel in love with during a SEASON. Girlfriend, if the answer is the latter, then run like hell because your marriage is not going to last. Forcing things that ought not to be does not in any way provide positive results nor does it give life to positive outcomes.
Do not get caught up trying to force relationships beyond its season. If the season has ended, let go of the relationship. It saves you tears and much needed SLEEP. If you do not, you would be so drained mentally, physically and emotionally. TRUST me I KNOW.
Embrace and appreciate Lifetime relationships. Lifetime people are the ones that stick and last beyond the season taking you through an entire lifetime. Lifetime people may teach you lifetime lessons. Pay close attention to your relationship. Know what type of relationship you have.
Lifetime Expecations are rare and hard to find. Thus, when you do hold fast to it, do not slip through your fingers like sand on the beach. I beseech you, do not go chasing and collecting rocks when there are DIAMONDS to be found.
Remember that seasonal people may come into your life for a reason. Do not falt them for being SEASONAL. Appreciate them in the moment. But be ready to let go when the reason ceases to exist and the seaon has ended.
SEASONAL vs LIFETIME.
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